A friend of mine shared her frustration of having a picky eater in the house and asked for suggestions on how to introduce healthier foods. "He doesn't like vegetables, rarely touches fruits, and would eat peanut butter all day if up to him." The "he" she was referring to is not her son; it's her husband.
Hmm, it's one thing to be dealing with a little child in regards to picky eating, but it's another when trying to work on an adult, especially if they're set in their ways.
Below are some tips on how to get your picky eater to eat healthy. They involve the advice of my husband and male coworkers, so the male voice must count for something in this situation!
I will use words referring to men, but these ideas can be applied to the woman in your life too.
Ask for his help
Men like to fix things! (well, so says my husband) So ask your man for his advice. Without placing any blame, let him know your concerns and that they are important to you. Ask for his suggestions in resolving the problem, and focus on how he will benefit in ways that appeal to him.
Find out what he likes
If you know what he likes, you can work with it. Ask your guy what foods he likes and what he would be willing to try. My friend's husband loves his peanut butter, so she'll work with this. She can buy the natural peanut butter instead of the partially hydrogenated, sugar-filled varieties. She can introduce other nuts into the house (No, not the crazy neighbors across the street), such as almonds and walnuts. She can even make a heart healthy trail mix as a portable snack.
Keep healthier snacks easily accessible
You know the old saying, "If you can't see, you won't eat it?" (I'm not really sure if that is an old saying, so if not, I just made it one!) Well, keep healthier food choices within easy reach, and put the nasty chocolate, peanut butter, tempting, gooey chunk bars waayy in the back of the pantry... where only you know the location. 
Take baby steps
Gradual changes work better most of the time rather than doing a complete diet makeover on your husband. Gradually increase the healthier foods while slowly removing the unhealthy ones from his diet. If you do it just right, he may not even notice!
Be the example
Your husband (or wife) is going to have a hard time following a healthier diet if you're not doing so. What's the point of telling your husband he needs to eat healthier if you won't? You gotta walk the talk. (I like this saying too.)
Healthier Snack Ideas
Here are some specific ideas for introducing healthier snacks.
Vegetables
- Keep sweeter tasting vegetables, such as carrots, corn, fresh cherry tomatoes, and red peppers on hand with a favorite dip.
- Steam, sautè, or grill vegetables if your picky eater doesn't like them raw. Top with olive oil, salt, and pepper. Seriously, who can resist food on the grill?!
- Spread natural, peanut butter on celery, carrots, cooked asparagus, broccoli, eggplant, or green peppers. Your peanut butter-loving picky eater might really like it!
- Include baked sweet potatoes or butternut squash at dinnertime, and keep leftovers on hand for snacks. Add pumpkin pie spice and heart healthy butter spread for a sweet taste or pepper and olive oil for more savory.
Fruits
- Bananas are great snacks, especially for picky eaters that have a preference for sweet foods. Eat them plain. Freeze them and turn them into "Popsicles." Spread peanut butter on them. Grill them. Add them to a fruit smoothie. Wear them on your head with other fruits and dance the samba. Bananas are a very versatile food.
- Freeze grapes (I like red grapes) for great snacks you can pop in your mouth like candy.
- Fresh pineapple is sooo good! Cut off the hard, spiky exterior to reveal sweet gold. Cut in chunks and keep in the fridge where it's very easy to see and grab.
- Make a fruit salad to keep in the fridge within eyesight. Use fruit that is fresh and in-season if you can. Sweeter fruits, like strawberries and melons are great choices. Top with a fruit yogurt if this helps your picky eater.
- Fruit smoothies with added protein powder
- Cut up apples and spread with peanut butter.
Grains
- Buy or make 100% whole grain breads to keep in the house. Please don't buy that nasty, packaged white bread stuff! (Shudder)
- Here's a sneaky trick that works with kids and may work on the adult picky eater - add healthy foods to dishes they like. Puree vegetables or chop them finely to disguise them in breads. Carrots, zucchini, pumpkin, and other squashes work very well.
- Oatmeal makes for a great snack... well, as long as a ton of butter and sugar is not added to it! Better add-ins include cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, chopped apples, berries, raisins, dried cranberries, nuts, flax seeds, milk, cottage cheese, protein powder, and more.... just maybe not all at the same time!
- Pancakes? Yes, please! I love pancakes, and I now use a healthier pancake recipe when I need my fix. I love these, and so does my husband. I add berries to the batter, and that makes them even better. You don't even need syrup.
- Wild rice and brown rice with added spices and vegetables make for great snacks. I made this Tex-Mex rice casserole for dinner a few days ago that turned out very well. It would turn into a great snack, heated with whole grain chips.
- Rye crackers spread with Laughing Cow cheese (I do this on occasion; it's goood!)
- Brown rice cakes - top them with... (you guessed it) peanut butter!
Proteins
- Hard boiled eggs
- String cheese, Laughing Cow cheese, Babybel cheese
- Yogurt - try to stay away from the sugar-filled varieties
- Mixed nuts
- Natural nut spreads
- Tuna - put in a pita pocket with some sharp cheddar, a tomato, and freshly ground pepper
- Sliced turkey
- Turkey jerky
- Leftover chicken - wrap in a whole grain tortilla with low-fat cheese, heat, and top with salsa
- Shrimp
- Tofu - cooked, grilled, cold, blended in a smoothie - you can do a ton with tofu and add whatever kind of flavor you want
One Final Word
It's great to want to improve your health as well as the health of your spouse, but ultimately that desire for change has to be made within the individual. Your husband (or wife) must be open to improving his health; forcing the issue isn't going to accomplish anything... except more tension. According to my male "advisors," sometimes you just gotta "leave him alone." He may not be ready for change; that can take time. So just love your spouse for who he/she is and keep working on improving your health. One day your picky eater may "see the light."
Your ideas
I know there are lots more great ideas, and I'd love to learn from you! How do you get a picky eater to choose healthier foods? What other ideas do you have for healthy snacks?
To my frustrated friend, I wish you the best! 
Originally posted 2008-05-29 10:00:22. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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Love your advice! And I completely agree with you that if people don’t want to change, then they aren’t going to. You can’t force someone to change their ways.
One of my sneaky tactics is to spend a lot of time in the kitchen experimenting with different recipes. I get very excited and beg everyone to try the recipes and see what they think of them… and they do it to humour me, but sometimes they discover that the food I’m making is actually really good!
Another good thing to do is specifically buy two types of food, like skim milk for yourself and 2% for them. When they see that you’re getting your own kinds of food, they might be more willing to try them or to realize that it’d help if they started eating a little healthier too.
Thanks, Sagan.
I like your sneaky tactics.
You know that last idea would work with little kids! Why is it they always seem to want to eat what’s on your plate?!
Those sound like delicious ideas!
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Ha ha! That’s awesome!
My challenge was breaking my husband’s deep frying and lots of barbecued ribs habit. His cholesterol was high, so this was vital.
First thing was to use healthier oils. I pretty much always use olive oil, and not much of it. That way he’s still getting some of the flavor he’s after, but in a way that’s better for him. I do a lot of stir frying with sauces made from things like lemon juice and spices so he gets something of a fried taste, but very little oil and a lot of vegetables.
We also do the “keep it out of the house” routine. If we don’t buy it, it takes more effort to get it. When you’re trying to snack or trying to cook a meal, heading out to the store is rarely convenient.
His cholesterol went down beautifully over a couple years. Took that long to get him to get it checked again, so I really don’t know how long it took.
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Stephanie,
Good for you helping your husband break the fatty foods habit!
Lemon and spices are excellent ideas to wean someone from their preference for the deep-fried, overly salty foods.
I believe the taste buds change over time, and once eating healthy for a while, the junk foods lose the appeal they once had.
Actually, I think these tips are really helpful for myself! I’m always trying to force myself to eat those damn green leafy things, but it’s much better to try and imperceptibly change your tastes by introducing sweeter-tasting vegetables at first and then working your way down to the hard-core stuff, like celery.
Merry,
Oh yes, I agree with you! (I’m not a big fan of celery either… unless it’s got PB or some type of creamy cheese on top!!)
I have been a picky eater for most of my life and I find it very difficult to eat healthy. I would love, more than anything, to be able to eat a salad for lunch like everyone else. But the sheer act of eating “leaves” repulses me. While (I think) that I eat a number of foods, my problem is in the way that they are prepared. This is my main problem. For example, I will eat chicken but only if seasoned or marinated or I will eat banana bread but not the actual fruit, etc. I wish I could eat dried or frozen fruit “like candy”, but this is a far stretch. Perhaps the writer is referring to a picky eater by choice and not a life-long picky eater.
That was really great. I happen to be the picky eater in my house. I have had two kids and over the years have left myself go. I keep trying to get back on track but slide easily back into old habits. Lucky for me i love fruit, and some veggies, and i love chicken. I also love peanut butter, and now i have more ways to use it. Thanks for the help. If anyone has any other suggestions please let me know. i need all the help i can get… Good luck this new year.
Those look like some reasonable ideas — if you like those foods. I’m the picky adult in the house (though my ds is terrible about produce — and old enough I have a harder time dictating a lot more fruits and veggies) — and I don’t like a lot of those items on the list. I do make sneaky chef pancakes — they do have chocolate chips, but otherwise are all healthful ingredients (and we don’t use syrup) — but I don’t like berries in my pancakes (or on ice cream or … I like fresh fruit, plain, but that is it, never with things.) And sometimes, I don’t eat fruits and veggies because they are too hard to chew — I have a tmj problem that effects me periodically.
I can’t stand bananas (though I love the smell!) — so the classic smoothies are out, ditto for yogurt. I don’t even like chocolate yogurt — and forget fruit flavors.
I do use more whole wheat flour and oat bran in some of my baking, so at least am getting plenty of fiber. It goes well in chocolate chip cookies — but of course, they have lots of butter and sugar! Can’t win.
But fruit and veggies – that’s tricky for me, especially this time of year. I don’t like frozen fruits, so am limited to what I can eat this time of year. (I have been enjoying those Clementines, though! They have the added advantage of being small, so less overwhelming.)
Oh — another sneaky thing, V8 Fruit Fusion. My ds and I enjoy the Orange flavored one.
So, is he a genuine picky eater, or does he just not like how some stuff tastes when it’s prepared certain ways. Because cooking squash is not going to make me eat it. In fact, the smell and texture is even more revolting when it has been cooked. And it doesn’t matter how it’s been cooked either. Even the few vegetables I do like I simply can’t eat cooked. And I do mean “can’t”. This article would’ve been a lot more helpful if it was for about helping someone with a genuine food issue rather than laziness or not liking the taste.
Thanks, I crave sweets and I can’t get away from them, it’s like they taunt me or something!!! I made a list of some other healtheir foods I can eat. The reason way I visited this website is because I hate being yelled at and I hate being picky!!! Anyways, all that matters is that I am happy and healthy!!!
I don’t think these tactics will fool an adult picky eater. I knew a two year old they would not have fooled.
I’m the very, VERY picky eater in this house. My husband on the other hand can and will eat anything. I rarely touch fruits and forget about veggies! If it has a soft-like crunch to it, I won’t it! Things like chips that crunch is fine. In my mind chips are suppose to crunch and fruits and veggies are not. So it’s very hard to get me to eat anything that is healthy. My husband understands though. He’s been on a recipe cooking kick lately. He’s been cooking fried rice and chicken alfredo, things I like. Though with fried rice he has to leave out many of the veggies that he would put in it for himself. Like onions, broccoli and carrots. He’ll put peas in it because I’ll eat those. Then he cooks broccoli on the side and puts it in his.
Point being, I’ve tried many different things but I can’t get myself to eat them. If I bite down and it crunches, it’s not going into my stomach!
I like the idea about grilling veggies and fruits though! I will HAVE to try that on bananas. I actually do like bananas, and sometimes apples, but not often.
I also like the idea about getting natural peanut butter. I’ve been eating a lot of peanut butter lately.
Thank you for all the wonderful ideas! I hope it works for me! My doctor told me I needed to gain weight before I have kids so that I’m not at a high risk of having a miscarriage. I think with your helpful tips I might just be able to start eating healthier! Not a lot but at least a little. Adding fruits and veggies into it is definitely going to help me out.
Take it from me… Being picky is not all that great. I feel lethargic most of the time and I see everyone else eating things that look so delicious yet I won’t eat them because of the things that are in it.
I agree with Xina. I am probably one of the pickiest eaters ever and these wouldn’t help me because I don’t like the food to begin with. I have tried things and am not afraid to try them either. I would love to eat fruit and vegetables but between the two, I only like corn. And it sucks. I want to like healthy food and I’m not one of those picky eaters who refuses to eat leaves or “healthy” foods, I just truly don’t like the taste at all. Even normal types of food I barely like. I don’t even like plain mashed potatoes.
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